Well, it is that special time of year again. March 5. Chelsie would have been 22 today. This morning I asked the kids what they remembered about her and surprisingly they remembered alot. She was such a presence in our family. E said, " she would have been on a mission right now, if she was alive" and I told him that was exactly where she was right now. Just a little bit longer than the normal 18 months that other girls go on.
Our tradition on Chelsie's birthday is to do something really hard for one whole day. Something that you struggle with and just can't seem to master. And ask Heavenly Father for his grace to help you accomplish it just for one special day. We have seen miracles happen by doing this. I truly think she must be allowed to help us today accomplish these challenges. I have seen it work every year. I am excited for the kids to see Heavenly Father's hand in their lives because they take this very seriously.
One of the kids is not going to cause any contention for one whole day, another is going to work on a relationship in the family that they struggle with, one of the kids is hoping for some extra help with a habit they are trying to break, one of the kids is going to work on trying not to make loud noises for one whole day, and all of us are trying to remember Chelsie by letting her know we are doing what we can to make it back to her someday.
I truly look forward to her birthday because of the spirit I feel and how close it helps me come to her. I know she is doing all she can to help us return to him. I know she would love to see us trying extra hard for her birthday. I am excited to accomplish my goal today. I know it will work with special help from her and the Lord. Happy Birthday Chelsie! We miss you!
Just Keep Dancing' Like We're 22!
6 years ago
Hi, Cousin! :) (I saw your blog on Teasha's) What a wonderful way to celebrate Chelsie's birthday. Thank you for sharing this.
ReplyDeleteWow, that is awesome. I feel bad cause I have never thought of doing anything like this, although I do always remember her birthday and other certain dates. My kids don't know my sister though cause they were too young. Garrett was only 2 and Hailey had just barely turned 1 when she passed away. Hope your day was wonderful.
ReplyDeleteIt's amazing that the feelings are always so close - it gives you an idea that the ones we miss must be that close too. Happy Birthday Chelsie!
ReplyDeleteYes, Happy BIrthday Chelsie. I loved your post and the dinner you had with her favorite things. Beautiful Chelsie must feel your love. Can't wait to see you. When ?
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